When you meet someone for the first time you will need to strike up a conversation. First impressions are important: get it right and you may set the seed for a beautiful relationship; get it wrong and you risk rejection. Here’s a few things to do and some embarrassing mistakes to avoid!
Initiating the first conversation is a vital step. Photo: Margret Hofheinz-Döring/ Galerie Brigitte Mauch Göppingen
Firstly, make your approach with confidence: this is made very much easier if you use eye-contact to tell if they’re interested before you make your approach!
You will need to initiate eye contact so that you can begin a conversation – you may begin speaking as soon as your eyes meet. It is normal for eye contact to be broken as the speaker looks away. Guys: boobs don’t have eyes! Having a conversation with her chest will, at best, reduce the effectiveness of your eye contact; at worst it will get you a fast rejection!
A simple “hi” said with confidence is far more effective than an elaborate (and cheesy) chat-up line! Be honest and genuine; just introduce yourself and get them to tell you a bit about themselves.
Keep glances brief: don’t overdo eye contact in an attempt to increase intimacy prematurely – it will only make the other person feel uncomfortable. If you want to increase intimacy early on, use body language to match the other persons gestures.
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